Sex and couples

I want an O too! (every time)

You’ve done it for the first time, everything went well, and you’ve done it a few times after that too. You had an O, well, at best, half of the times you two ended up in bed. Did he come? Sure he did. Did he ask you if you did? You answered yes, and even faked it, just to keep him feeling king of the world. It’s…you know…OK. Should you settle for OK? Hell no!

We know you don’t want to hurt his feelings, at least not this early in the relationship, but as an intelligent woman you must know that unsatisfactory sex leads only to unsatisfied girl. This can only mean unsatisfied living and a soon brake up. And we don’t want this to happen, do we?

So, the question is, how to tell him gently what it takes to please you in bed? Read on and you find out.

Men like to bring you to climax, it makes them feel able and manly. But, girl is very different to another girl, and so men can’t always know what makes you scream with pleasure.

Let him start as usual, either oral or manual foreplay. You just have to remember to put a loot of moans and ‘baby you’re soooo goood’ every few minutes.

Build up his confidence and then ask for whatever you want, jus as long as you tell it in soft, sexy tone. For example: -Baby it drives me mad when you fondle me with your hand, I’d like it even better if you used your other hand and put two fingers inside’

A good way to go is to ‘help’ him with your own hands, by gently rubbing your clitoris or moving your body while his head is between your thighs. If he strikes, try not to strangle him, but let him know that he’s on the right path.

Don’t let him stop the foreplay too soon. He must realize you need more time to get ready. If you notice he’s about to ‘get off the wagon’, try telling him something like: -Oh my God! You’re driving me mad! I’m seconds away! Don’t stop!’

Don’t feel bad if you’re not doing anything other than lying on your back. Enjoy, and if you want to, start fondling him as well. Do a 69-er if you’re up to it. If you reach an O during foreplay, you have more chance of repeating it during intercourse.

When you start doing it for real, put yourself first for once. But don’t forget to compliment him and then give the instruction. Like: Do it slower, I want to feel every inch of it! Take me from behind; I love it when it goes so deep! Touch me while you’re doing that!

With any luck, this should be enough for you to be satisfied. And once you started tipping him, it gets easier every time. You can even make a game out of it, he does something for you, and then you return the favour. Experiment, have fun, enjoy…