Are you a thinker or a doer in bed?

A test to let you know how you behave in bed

Can you let your fantasy run wild and explore, or are you too frightened to loose control? Find out how relaxed and naughty you are when bed fun is concerned:

When you really think about it, it’s not so difficult to find harmony with your darling when it comes to sex. No real guy is going to expect of you to know Kamasutra by heart or have tons of experience. It is often enough to do what you feel, let your impulses and imagination lead you, without too much hesitation.

But, because of shyness, aggressiveness, eager to please him, upbringing and fear to project as too much or too little experienced, our behaviour in bed is far from what we want or feel completely happy with. Can you relax? If yes, how much? The path to answering the questions is in front of you, but only if you complete the test truthfully.

1. He invited you over to his place tonight, and you are pretty sure how the evening’s gonna end. During the day you are:

a) enjoying in advance

b) a bit excited but tense as well

c) so involved in your own problems you don’t have time to think

2. For some time bow you have this erotic dream or a secret wish that you're afraid to commit. How do you act?

a) You are going to tell your partner about it.

b) You think about it while making love to your partner

c) You are embarrassed and are trying to forget it, because your dream was too hot

3. You know you are going to meet the guy you fancy today. You put on your sexy laundry because:

a) you like wearing it and feel sexy

b) you like it, but you hope he’s gong to like it too

c) of him. You like practical, preferably pure cotton underwear.

4. When you are engaged in sexual pleasure, your ability to think rationally is:

a) close to zero: your brain is shut down

b) you turn your brain off and on

c) you are always able to think rationally

5. How would you like your partner to be in moments of passion?

a) The same like you, somewhat free with some restrictions

b) Exactly like you

c) A little bit more conservative, some of his demands make you uncomfortable

6. Your sex life is:

a) Turbulent, full of ups and downs

b) Great, full of excitement

c) Monotone

7. Speaking generally when you work and in everyday living, you are:

a) the initiator: brave an not afraid to risk

b) balanced: whatever you do, you always play safe

c) careful: often indecisive and afraid of possible mistakes

8. You’re having your first romantic dinner with the man that attracts you. You are talking about:

a) something provocative, related to love and sex

b) his past, even from long, long ago and about his exes

c) your work

9. He brought you to your apartment door and would like to ask him in for a nightcap, but it’s only your second date:

a) You do not hesitate to ask him in

b) You give him a promising kiss and run away like Cinderella

c) You think that a goodnight peck on the cheek is enough

10. You feel connected to a guy if:

a) You feel you can talk to him about everything and ask him anything.

b) You wishes are the same.

c) He is capable of reading your thoughts and lets you know what he wants.

11. He had a problem performing in bed, but he swears he loves you.

a) You try to do something extremely sexy, something that would arouse a dead man.

b) You don’t want to attack or pressure him. He’ll do better next time.

c) You tell him that it’s ok and that you’re not worried.

12. You’re in bed with the man you love, but are fantasising about that sexy neighbour of yours. You think of your fantasy:

a) positively, it enhances your excitement

b) Maybe you’d like not to have that fantasy right now, but except it as natural

c) It ruins your mood completely because you have bad conscious

13. What does the word ‘wish’ mean to you:

a) Pleasant wishes that you pursue to please

b) Something sinful, but you indulge yourself from time to time.

c) Food cravings, like pregnant women have.

14. Your ‘love beast’ should be.

a) Obedient like a dog, but perverse like a snake

b) Provocative like a cat but wild like a wild horse

c) Nice like a dolphin and gentle like Bamby

15. If saying ‘NO’ was not an option, with which of the three stranger would you spend the night:

a) An inexperienced young man, looking for his first lessons

b) An exciting waiter, whom you seduced in a bar

c) A manly truck driver

16. While making sweet love to your darling you:

a) Whisper passionate words and provocative wishes in his ear

b) Let him know how much you like the things he’s doing

c) Shut up, in fear of spoiling it all

Now, for every A answer, give yourself 3 ponts, for every B 2 points and for C 1 point. Sum it all up and read us again tomorrow, when you’re test results will be ready.